It’s not the best reason to do stuff, but sometimes we all act in a certain way just to impress other people, even if, in the long run, we know it will backfire on us. As long as it’s not harming anyone else, we should do things because they’ll benefit us. Working out what the best course of action is can be difficult, but given some time and space alone it should be possible.
Important decisions shouldn’t be rushed as we have to live with the consequences. Being in a calm, stress-free environment helps us to think more clearly. When it comes to the crunch you’re the only person who can make up your mind about what you want. Have confidence in your decisions and any actions you then take.