We all come across problems we have to deal with on a daily basis, and develop our skills in solving them by watching other people and learning from our own experience.
Problem solving involves
If you've got a problem and aren't sure how to deal with it, you could talk it over with a mate, and even if it doesn't solve the problem you might at least be able to work out exactly what it is that's bothering you. If your problem's with another person it is best to get what ever is bugging you out in the open rather than bottling it up.
If you aren't ready to talk about your problem with anyone else try writing down your feelings in some way, or there may be a web site in the internet that can help.